
The Colorado wildfires are at center stage right now with
the continuous news reporting, the topic of most conversations, the hazy skies
and the unmistakable smell of smoke in the air. All of these things can become
very frightening to young children and there are bound to be questions that
arise.
How can we talk to our youngsters about what is happening
but doing so without frightening them? To get the conversation rolling, ask
them if they have questions or if they are worried or scared.
If they do have
questions, first make sure to reassure them that you will keep them safe. Be
honest in your answers and use words your children understand and at their
developmental level. In most cases the
wildfires are far from your home, so explain this to them and let them know
that they are safe. If, however, you are closer to the fires and there may be a
chance of evacuation, reassure them that you are well prepared and that you
will keep your family safe.
Use this movement as a teachable moment. Talk to them about
your emergency evacuation plan so that they feel prepared as well. You can do
this even if you are not close to the fires to practice fire safety at your own
home. Feeling prepared and informed will help ease your child’s mind.
Help them express themselves in ways that they feel most
comfortable. For example, drawing pictures, writing stories and role playing
with toys can help the children to work out a stressful or confusing situation
and to feel comforted.
Also, letting children feel like they can be helpful can
also reassure them in a stressful time. Gather needed supplies and donate them or
have them create a thank you card for firemen helping to put the fires out. Being able to help can help children to feel hopeful
.
Times like these can be stressful and scary for everyone,
not just children, so make sure that you are calm, honest, consistent and
supportive when talking with your children. Children are resilient and are more
often just curious but by creating an environment they feel safe to talk about
such things and cope with stressful situations, we can help them to create coping
skills that last a lifetime.